Couples Therapy
Communication – from ‘perfect’ to ‘volcanic’…
When you first met, you could finish each other’s sentences.
It seemed you agreed on everything – until you didn’t.
Relationships have their ups and downs. But lately, it’s been more lows than highs.
You seem to fight or disagree on just about everything! You barely communicate, and it doesn’t end well when you do.
Hot and bothered, but not in a good way…
Fighting and feeling disconnected wreaks havoc on your sex life – which may have already been on life support.
From passion so intense that you couldn’t get enough of each other to the tundra… where you are now.
Of course, it makes sense that the passion of the infatuation stage would wane, but a few years into the relationship, you each felt you had great sex together, even if it was infrequent.
But life hit… children, job responsibilities, and soon it was just going through the motions. But what about cuddling? Do you need an appointment for that, too?
Which direction is forward?
These are just a few common complaints I hear when working with couples. You’ve built this life together, but you’re scared that you are moving in the wrong direction.
My training and experience allow me to help couples rebuild connection, improve that nonexistent communication, and rekindle intimacy.
It may not be easy – is anything worth having? But focusing on the ‘couple-ship’ can help you both determine whether you want to keep working on the relationship or dissolve it.
Honor each other again.
Couples therapy can help you learn to communicate better, help you and your partner reconnect (if that is the goal), and honor each other in the way you intended before things went south.
You can learn to drown out the noise of children, money, work, family, and friends so you two can focus on being a team again.
Please call me to spend a few minutes learning if I can help you recover the relationship you want. It will take commitment, courage, and consistent effort to gain the full benefit of counseling.
Aren’t you worth it?